Big Stan has reached a point in his life that he will respond with gentleness, because at the end he knows that the results will always be far greater than using his mouth to pronounce words that destroy and hurt the people that surround him.
In the different moments of our lives, we must take control of our thoughts. We must learn how to live a purpose driven life through our words. The very words that we are using today will become the catapult for our successes or our failures.
At the end, we can't blame no one for the things we say.